Saying "YES" to more things than we can actually manage to be present for with integrity and ease of being is in effect saying "NO" to all those things and people and places we have already said "YES" to, including, perhaps, our own well-being.
Directly experiencing a particular place cqn only happen if you can manage to be present without your usual filters. Otherwise, you might only be in your concept or idea of a place, whether it be your home, your work place, or, for that matter, an exotic vacation destination. That postcard from the edge may very well apply:
"Having a great time. Wish I were here."